The Motivation Man

January 3, 2023 Chelsey Sleator
Even on his toughest days, Veteran and family man Chris Wilkins finds a way to keep going and sharing inspiration with others.

Chris Wilkins with his son, Chris Wilkins Jr.

Chris Wilkins with his son, Chris Wilkins Jr.

[Wilkins, Chris 11/23 7:16 AM] Your history is not your destiny. Things can change, but you have to commit to changing them. 🙏🏾👑❤️ #WisdomWednesday #MakeTheGoldenDecisions

These inspirational words were posted to Schwab’s Diversity & Inclusion internal communications channel by a wise man: Chris Wilkins. Chris, who is based out of DFW, is not only speaking the truth, but he’s also speaking his truth.

Chris grew up in a family that struggled. He experienced bouts of homelessness from middle school to college and had to live one day at a time to make it through. But he persevered and was determined to change his future.

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I’m here because I have a greater purpose. And I knew I was only going to get to that greater purpose by not giving up on myself.

- Chris Wilkins, Relationship Manager, Charles Schwab

After graduating college, Chris served in the U.S. Navy, where he says he learned the value of sacrifice for the greater good. And after his military service, he started a career in social services. He was passionate about the work but was feeling emotionally and physically burnt out after working 80-hour weeks for three years.

“Someone asked me ‘What do you like to do in your free time?’” explains Chris. “And I didn’t know how to answer. I didn’t have any free time. It all went to the work and the people and the communities. I realized I’m 30 and I haven’t done anything for myself since I was 26.”

So, for the sake of his wellbeing Chris decided to make a career change. He had a budding passion for financial services and financial literacy, so he jumped at an opportunity to join Schwab as a Relationship Manager in February of 2022.

[Wilkins, Chris 11/22 7:32 AM] The biggest dream killer is the fear of failure. Don’t be afraid to fail, it’s actually success if you learn from it. Push through your fear and take the risk. 🙏🏾👑 #WisdomTuesday

“There were days I completely questioned my career change,” says Chris. “You hold yourself to a certain standard and moving from a field where I was established to a field where I didn’t know anything was really hard.”

It was on the days that he struggled that Chris would look for bits of motivation. He started posting motivational quotes and thoughts on the Diversity & Inclusion internal communications channel as a way to have something to go back to and to reassure himself that he was going to figure it out. And it started to resonate.

“I realized I was starting to help other people at the same time,” explains Chris. “And when I saw that, it started to resonate with me even more.”

Chris has developed quite the following with his daily posts as evidenced by the responses he gets:

“I needed that today, thank you!”

“This is going on my office wall and to my entire team, thank you!!”

“ALL. OF. THIS!!!”

“Gratitude Friday: Chris, I’m thankful for your daily reminders to live a full meaningful life–you make my day great!”

He recalls one individual who reached out to him directly in response to a post about not getting caught up in the eye of the storm. She was struggling with the stress of work, and he told her, “Everyone in this building is here because they’re supposed to be here. You were chosen and you are equipped to handle what you are supposed to handle.”

She told him that he likely prevented her from making the mistake of turning in her resignation letter that day.

[Wilkins, Chris 12/1 7:32 AM] Bad days are going to happen! Long as you get back up every single time and refocus and remind yourself that you absolutely got this, you are UNTOUCHABLE. 🙏🏾👑 #MotivationThursday

Chris is feeling more confident in his new career. He’s taken much of his own advice, and he says he’s learned a lot and has built a lot of good connections and networks. He continues to post daily motivations to inspire himself and others, and to continue his quest to keep growing and learning. In his own words:

[Wilkins, Chris 11/28 7:20 AM] Remember, success doesn’t come from what you do occasionally, it comes from what you do consistently. 🙏🏾❤️👑 #MotivationMonday

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